An independent celebrant is free to conduct all kinds of services. From humanist (no religion whatsoever), through to a service with maybe a prayer or a hymn (or several), through to more spiritually-orientated content.

Whether you’re looking for a funeral celebrant, or somebody to conduct a marriage, baby naming or vow renewal, I approach it from the angle that it’s not about me. It’s about your wishes and views… I then facilitate these completely, helping and guiding where necessary. And with regard to content – it’s all possible - from poetry to music, to special readings and recollections, so don’t be afraid to ask!

I consider this work a huge privilege. Whether you need a Midlands wedding celebrant; a celebrant in Birmingham for a naming ceremony, or someone to provide a fitting funeral for a loved one - I am happy to make myself available to you.

An eclectic background in music, theatre, writing and counselling has given me a broad spectrum on life, and an appreciation of all that goes hand-in-hand with that great roller-coaster known as being human!

I very much look forward to hearing your story, and helping you to tell it in the most appropriate and satisfying way possible.

Thank you, Ruth.

A Thousand Goodbyes: The Surprising Life Of A Funeral Celebrant

When Ruth Graham left the world of stand-up comedy to become a funeral celebrant, she’d imagined a less combative career. Over a thousand services later … she knows better. Probably her most demanding role to date, Ruth has needed every ounce of diplomacy, courage, humour and her wits about her to juggle the daily challenges. From grief-stricken families to amorous widowers through to plate-smashing, warring siblings and even a flock of stoned doves at a Rasta funeral. As the story unfolds we witness her new career developing into a 24/7 commitment. Will it break her? Or will it be the spur she needs to get her own life in order? Jaw-dropping, informative, moving and hilarious in turn, ‘A Thousand Goodbyes’ is a reminder that nobody is guaranteed a tomorrow; whilst encouraging everyone to seize their day.

Coffins & Confetti: (A Celebrant's Memoir Of Life, Loss & Love)

Ruth Graham invites us to join her on the next part of her journey as an Independent Civil Celebrant. She honestly believed she'd seen it all - apparently not! Once again, we're exposed to the best, worst (and funniest) examples of human behaviour in Ruth's latest memoir, Coffins & Confetti, but this time the tears and laughter are set against the poignant backdrop of the writer’s own search for true and lasting love.

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